Should I shame my ex for what he has done or carry on letting people believe he is the 'victim'?

asking him to leave you alone for a week is quite reasonable in my opinion really i mean he hurt you in a really awful way its not your daughters fault but some times and i hate to say this in a crisis its our children who give us the greatest support to manage our emotions. Tell him he can stop by on ----- date like next friday to see her make arangments for a friend or family member to be there to watch what goes on and you go get your hair done. Screw what others are saying this is not between them its between you and that father. Its in the childs best interest to see her dad you know that but if it takes a week to cool off he should respect and understand that after all the court wouldnt give him hardly any time if he took you to court right now until your child is a year old. Keep being strong and listen to your heart and gut not to others critisism